Over the recent years, this time of year is one I have mixed feelings about. Not about the weather mind you, if I could live year-round in between 60 to 85 degrees, I am in 100% for that!!
But I am a volleyball dad, and this is Club tryout season.
As a dad to twin 14-year-old girls deeply immersed in the world of Club volleyball, this period often feels like we’re venturing into uncharted territory, promoting our daughters to strangers with the hope of finding the right fit. A fellow parent once humorously summed it up as “overpromoting our daughters to complete strangers,” a sentiment that resonates deeply during these moments.
For those unfamiliar with this process, let me paint a picture. It starts with signing up for a $25 to $35 Pre-Try Out clinic at one of the dozen Clubs in our area. Choosing the right Club is no easy task—it involves careful consideration and sometimes a leap of faith. The turnout can be overwhelming, with some sessions hosting over 100 eager girls vying for a limited number of spots across 3 to 6 teams per Club.
Following the clinic, parents and kids queue up for brief, nerve-wracking conversations with coaches whom we’ve never met and likely couldn’t pick our daughters out of a lineup. The feedback from these encounters can be direct, leaving us questioning whether such bluntness is necessary for 14-year-olds.
In the midst of this whirlwind, I am grateful for the camaraderie and support of our volleyball community. Together, we navigate these challenges, celebrating the successes and learning from the setbacks. Ha, or somethings we just lie and say, “I’m fine, it is going well, thank you for asking…..”
Our Coaching friend had this message to share, and it was so powerful I asked her permission to put a few of her comments here:
- I am confident in your abilities, regardless of what you are told.
- Talk to other girls at the clinic, not just the ones you know.
- Do everything with a sense of urgency, warm-up, help shag balls, your water breaks.
- Just play, instead of paying attention to when the coaches are watching.
- Pay attention to your body language and facial expressions, especially after a mistake, move on to the next play quickly.
- Breath, you got this.
- Remember, you are more than a number and have much to offer any team/club/coach!
Let’s continue to cheer each other on as we embark on this journey once again. Here’s to finding the right fit and creating lasting memories for our volleyball enthusiasts!
Stay Spicy, Geoffrey, 214-529-9622
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